We must come to understand the facts that God cannot give a complete person you desire in marriage. He gives the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire.
This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience.
Moreso, there is no perfect marriage and no ready made one. Marriage is hard work, which will need the spouse to volunteer to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances.
It’s imperatively important to focus and determine more on building the marriage together as this article will further help the couple to have a awesome experience in their marriage.1. Consolidate The Vow.
This is where prioritisation of marriage comes in, you will need to show and work on a preference for the things that will make the marriage better year after year. It means prioritizing your spouse over everything and everyone, including the kids.
Putting your spouse above everything else does not mean that you put all your time and energy into your spouse and their needs. It does mean that you make sure that all the distractions don’t damage your marriage.
It means thinking about your spouse often and considering their opinion when you are weighing a decision.
Prioritizing your spouse also means being unselfish. The selfless act of putting their feelings, needs, and well-being ahead of your own helps you to create a sense of “we,” where everything you do focuses on keeping the marriage healthy.
2. Away From Distractions.
When it’s right, marriage can be a beautiful thing. But that doesn’t mean it’s challenges free. Even those that seem the happiest encounter their share of problems.
It’s all the more reason to focus less on other couples and how green their grass must be and more on taking care of your own grass.
There are time when we are facing trial in relationship and find ourselves searching for answers. We desire to fix the situation and yet in the midst of it we struggle not to lose hope, become discouraged, or walk away feeling defeated. But sometimes a few words can be all it takes to encourage your heart and your spouse.
3. Building Purposefully.
Model the kind of marriage that will make your children want to grow up to be good husbands and your daughters want to grow up to be good wives.
Be your spouse’s biggest encourager, not his or her biggest critic. Always see the good and best part of your spouse.
Be the one who wipes away their tears, not the one who causes them cry. Enjoy the value of union as you celebrates your marriage anniversary.
4. Appreciate Each Other.
As a married couple, part of the vow is to stick with your partner through the good and bad, but being married means more than simply staying together.
One of the most important roles of a spouse, husband or wife, is to light each other up; especially when things are hard. We all have hard time; days where nothing seems to go right.
Sometimes it is more than days. It is weeks or years of unemployment or illness or other difficulties that makes the couple feel overwhelmed, but they have to stick together.
Always striving together to achieve success in all and this will turn strengthen their relationship and advance their union.
Couple will have the best results as they continue to be sincere, humble, considerate and appreciate each other in all things.
5. Remember The Value.
Every marriage is great, beautiful, unique, priceless and special in its own respective ways.
Place value on your union and keep appreciating each other for the opportunity to come together as husband and wife.
In light of this, the couple are supposedly to continuing to live and enjoy common purpose, interest and keep blending together for unity. They should enjoy combine aspirations, vision, goal and target to achieve the best for the fulfilment of the marriage.
Individualism in all must be gradually reduced to the nearest minimum, dwell with the spirit of the great and glorious future ahead.
6. Celebrate The Union.
Marriage is worth celebrating!
In the quest of couple longing for a healthy and secure marriage, they may have experienced so many things, ups and downs are synonymous with great marriage especially one that will last a lifetime.
Sometimes, they might have tried reading all the books, attended marriage seminars, and even counseling, but it may seems like those improvements only last a little while, and then everything goes back the way it used to be.
Now feeling frustrated and lonely, and resigning to the fact that this marriage may not work properly.
But what if you could develop a long-term strategy for dealing with issues in the marriage as they arise? And what if, as a result, you had a relationship that was more open, honest, and loving than you ever imagined possible? Having a practical game plan in place would mean that you could finally feel relieved and optimistic about your marriage each and every day.
Marriage worth celebrating and appreciation to God for the journey so far, beautiful path and great results ahead.
Therefore, Be positive in all, hold each other, with God all things are possible, and that means great success in marriage is equally possible.
Enjoy Your Beautiful Marriage !